"To surrender in the face of sure injury seems too much for anyone to ask...and yet, it is precisely this that I asked my clients to face. Surrender when it seems mad to...surrender that part of us needing protection...but oddly enough it is breaking our pattern of protection that gives us our life back."

Most negative life patterns including phobias, many forms of depression, anxiety, failed marriages, poor job histories, poor social skills, and many others are really preprogramed behaviors that we put in place to save our life, get what we want, and ward off pain. The fact that they give us more pain than they save, defeat more of our wants than they give and even at times endanger us is little motivation for extinguishing them...because the single most powerful motivation we have is the one keeping them in place...SURVIVAL!!!

To Break your ineffective, irritating and frustrating life patterns requires a shift in consciousness...from survival to Authentic Self Expression...and to do that often takes the support of someone who believes in you and your gifts even more than you do...if not your Mom then maybe a Life Coach.

The Breaking Negative Life Patterns page is under construction and we look forward to sharing more with you on this vital subject in the near future. See the Core Paradigm

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